Big Red Firetruck!!

Okay. Since I'm trying to preoccupy my mind and I have nothing better to do at the moment, I've decided to clarify something for EVERYBODY. Now, not everyone will understand what I am about to say, but that's because they aren't in the proper situation just yet.

Love. Relationships. Longing for someone you almost had but lost at the last second. Being alone and hating it. Watching the person you want go about his or her everyday life like you're invisible. Yes, it hurts like hell. I know, believe me.

Many times, you can get so depressed that you start thinking things like, "Why does everyone seem to have someone...except me?" or "Why won't s/he just give me a chance?" or "I want to have somebody so bad. Just somebody...."

The biggest one is, "Why am I not good enough?". Well, friends, think about it long and hard. I don't want to point fingers or embarrass anyone, so I'll change the names to protect the not-so-innocent.

There's a guy that I just "met" and we exchanged phone numbers. Now, if you take the time to get to know me, then you should know how I am about certain things. Especially if you text me. So this guy and I start texting and pretty much the first thing he says is, "You should send me a pic." (Let's call this guy Bob).

Now, I already had an idea of what Bobmeant, but I was hoping really hard that I was wrong. Turns out, I was right, like I often am. He wants me to send him a NUDE picture of myself. Like I said, if you know me, then you'll understand when I say that I was pissed, but I hid it. Every time a guy does that, he only further proves the stereotype that all guys are pigs. I HATE that.


So when I refuse, Bob acts immaturely and stops texting me. I could care less, but the debater in me is itching to correct this guy. I mean, he keeps mentioning this girl that he really likes, but apparently she won't give him a second chance, so he's bummed out all the time. Or so it seems...

So I sent him, "Can I ask you a question? If you're so crazy about this girl you keep talking about, then why are you so insistent on getting pictures of me?" Of course, he never replies. Which means that he couldn't argue with me. He had no come back for that.

If he were smart, he would realize the point I was trying to make, but either he missed it completely or he ignored it because the next day, he is AGAIN asking why this mystery girl won't give him a second chance and talking about how he's falling helplessly for her. I wanted to pull my hair out when I saw this.

Here's the thing. All girls are the same in the respect that they want similar things in guys. They ARE NOT going to want to be with a guy that asks for nude pictures from other girls and cybers with all kinds of different people. That's as bad as cheating. If Bob was really crazy about this girl, then he wouldn't have asked me for those things!!! It's called RESPECT. There's even a song named after it. And guess what? It's sung by a FEMALE. Hint hint!! A girl wants respect no matter who she is.

IF YOU WANT SOMEONE, YOU HAVE TO BE DEVOTED TO SOMEONE. What does this mean? It means that you DO NOT act like a fucking pervert and claim to be crazy about one person at the same time. It doesn't work. THAT'S why that girl won't give Bob a second chance. She doesn't want to have to constantly worry about him turning to other girls for sexual relief through ANY means. She wants him to be devoted. If you can't do that, (guys and girls alike), then just accept reality and the fact that you WILL be alone unless you can get your act together.

This is why I don't tolerate that kind of stuff from anyone. It's a waste of my time and it makes me literally sick. I'm tired of the same guys, which is why I'll hold onto any guy I meet who DOESN'T fall into the stereotypes.